Add messaging platform enhancements: STT, stickers, Discord UX, Slack, pairing, hooks

Major feature additions inspired by OpenClaw/ClawdBot integration analysis:

Voice Message Transcription (STT):
- Auto-transcribe voice/audio messages via OpenAI Whisper API
- Download voice to ~/.hermes/audio_cache/ on Telegram/Discord/WhatsApp
- Inject transcript as text so all models can understand voice input
- Configurable model (whisper-1, gpt-4o-mini-transcribe, gpt-4o-transcribe)

Telegram Sticker Understanding:
- Describe static stickers via vision tool with JSON-backed cache
- Cache keyed by file_unique_id avoids redundant API calls
- Animated/video stickers get emoji-based fallback description

Discord Rich UX:
- Native slash commands (/ask, /reset, /status, /stop) via app_commands
- Button-based exec approvals (Allow Once / Always Allow / Deny)
- ExecApprovalView with user authorization and timeout handling

Slack Integration:
- Full SlackAdapter using slack-bolt with Socket Mode
- DMs, channel messages (mention-gated), /hermes slash command
- File attachment handling with bot-token-authenticated downloads

DM Pairing System:
- Code-based user authorization as alternative to static allowlists
- 8-char codes from unambiguous alphabet, 1-hour expiry
- Rate limiting, lockout after failed attempts, chmod 0600 on data
- CLI: hermes pairing list/approve/revoke/clear-pending

Event Hook System:
- File-based hook discovery from ~/.hermes/hooks/
- HOOK.yaml + handler.py per hook, sync/async handler support
- Events: gateway:startup, session:start/reset, agent:start/step/end
- Wildcard matching (command:* catches all command events)

Cross-Channel Messaging:
- send_message agent tool for delivering to any connected platform
- Enables cron job delivery and cross-platform notifications

Human-Like Response Pacing:
- Configurable delays between message chunks (off/natural/custom)
- HERMES_HUMAN_DELAY_MODE env var with min/max ms settings

Warm Injection Message Style:
- Retrofitted image vision messages with friendly kawaii-consistent tone
- All new injection messages (STT, stickers, errors) use warm style

Also: updated config migration to prompt for optional keys interactively,
bumped config version, updated README, AGENTS.md, .env.example,
cli-config.yaml.example, install scripts, pyproject.toml, and toolsets.

hermes_cli/main.py

@@ -446,6 +446,34 @@ For more help on a command:
     
     config_parser.set_defaults(func=cmd_config)
     
+    # =========================================================================
+    # pairing command
+    # =========================================================================
+    pairing_parser = subparsers.add_parser(
+        "pairing",
+        help="Manage DM pairing codes for user authorization",
+        description="Approve or revoke user access via pairing codes"
+    )
+    pairing_sub = pairing_parser.add_subparsers(dest="pairing_action")
+
+    pairing_list_parser = pairing_sub.add_parser("list", help="Show pending + approved users")
+
+    pairing_approve_parser = pairing_sub.add_parser("approve", help="Approve a pairing code")
+    pairing_approve_parser.add_argument("platform", help="Platform name (telegram, discord, slack, whatsapp)")
+    pairing_approve_parser.add_argument("code", help="Pairing code to approve")
+
+    pairing_revoke_parser = pairing_sub.add_parser("revoke", help="Revoke user access")
+    pairing_revoke_parser.add_argument("platform", help="Platform name")
+    pairing_revoke_parser.add_argument("user_id", help="User ID to revoke")
+
+    pairing_clear_parser = pairing_sub.add_parser("clear-pending", help="Clear all pending codes")
+
+    def cmd_pairing(args):
+        from hermes_cli.pairing import pairing_command
+        pairing_command(args)
+
+    pairing_parser.set_defaults(func=cmd_pairing)
+
     # =========================================================================
     # version command
     # =========================================================================